Most relationships start like wildfire in a dry season but eventually simmer down to a familiarized, boring state and make you wonder if your partner still loves you as they did before. As a lover, you should always be creative and entertain new ways to spice up your relationship. A one-way relationship is just another way of describing a boring one and will end a couple even if mutual love and respect exist.

Are you looking for new ways to entertain yourself with your partner in bed? Today, we discuss wild and spicy things you can try in bed with your partner, to keep the candle burning in your relationship.

1.         TIE UP YOUR PARTNER

BDSM stands for bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism is a perfect way to start if you want to spice up your bed moments with your partner. Usually, one person loves the power or dominance, while the other enjoys being out of control, but you can always switch roles. The thrill of dominance and submission is not just fun or adventurous but also instills trust among partners. Always practice BDSM with care because it can lead to injury. Always start lightly by simply holding your partner down with just your hands before progressing to handcuffs and strings. You can also apply safe words to caution the dominant.

2.         WEAR A BLINDFOLD

Wearing a blindfold is best for everyone, especially shy partners or overthinkers because it helps to turn their eyes and minds off the environment and focus on their feelings or pleasures. It is enticing and adventurous, and you should not bypass this action if you are looking for new things to spice up intimacy in your relationship.

3.         TRY ROLEPLAY

Roleplay is imitating the character and behavior of someone different from yourself. An example is taking up the role of a doctor and nurse having sex. Roleplay is one of the best ways to experience each other’s fantasies without cheating. A perfect activity to try in bed with your partner because it creates the feeling that you are always with someone different and not the same old repetitions you deal with every time.

4.         TRY TEMPERATURE PLAY

Temperature play is another form of BDSM sensual play, where cold and hot objects stimulate or arouse your significant other in bed. Some simple items to utilize in temperature play this night are ice, molten wax, whipped cream, melted butter, and chilled fresh fruits like berries. You can tease your partner by lightly grazing these items on their sensitive body parts like nipples, earlobes, etc.

5.         FILM YOURSELF

It’s a fact that many people do not want their sex life to be all lovey-dovey, and sometimes you need to bring the heat on. Filming yourself brings out some level of excitement and adventure. It also satisfies each other if one is away. Consider filming yourself naked only with a trusted partner. If one partner refuses or does not like it, you can always compromise by doing it in front of a mirror without record keeping.

6.         PLEASURE YOURSELF TOGETHER

If you or your partner have ever debarked the idea of masturbating together, consider giving it a try. Pleasuring yourself together is naughty but very intimate. For other reasons, masturbation helps you to explore your body and know what turns you on. Masturbating in front of your boyfriend or girlfriend will also give them an idea of how to please you sexually.

7.         HAVE SEX IN FRONT OF A MIRROR

Another thing you can try with your partner to spice up your intimacy is to have sex in front of a mirror. Men are visual creatures. It adds up to the excitement.

8.         PLAY 18+ TRUTH OR DARE WITH YOUR PARTNER

Playing truth or dare with your partner helps to loosen tensions while exploring your fantasies together. With this game, you can take any judgmental or insecure thoughts and have your partner try out all the wild and spicy ideas you have. Waste no time, and ask your partner to play this game this evening and let out all your fantasies.

9. EXPLORE INTIMACY THROUGH TOUCH

Intimacy is not just about sexual activity, but also about connecting with your partner emotionally and physically. One way to do this is by exploring intimacy through touch. Set aside some time to just touch and explore each other’s bodies without the expectation of sex. This can include gentle caresses, massages, and holding each other close. Not only can it be a relaxing and enjoyable experience, but it can also help deepen the emotional bond between partners.

10. EXPLORE TANTRIC SEX

Tantric sex is a practice that involves slowing down and focusing on the sensations of sex, rather than rushing towards orgasm. It involves a lot of foreplay, including breathing exercises, meditation, and intimate touching. The goal is to increase intimacy and connection with your partner and experience more intense and fulfilling orgasms. It can be a great way to explore your sexuality and deepen your connection with your partner.

11. EXPLORE THE CONCEPT OF TWIN FLAMES

The concept of twin flames suggests that there is one person out there who is your perfect match, and that when you find them, you will experience a deep and intense connection. This can be a fun and interesting idea to explore with your partner, and can lead to deeper discussions about your relationship and what you both want out of it. You can also try incorporating the idea into your sexual activities, by focusing on the idea of deep connection and intimacy with your partner.

12. TRY NEW CONDOMS

If you and your partner use condoms, consider trying out different types to see what works best for you. This can include different sizes, textures, and materials. Not only can it add some variety to your sexual activities, but it can also help ensure that you are both protected and comfortable during sex.

Remember, the most important thing when it comes to spicing up your relationship is communication and consent. Always make sure you and your partner are on the same page and comfortable with any activities you want to try. And above all, have fun and enjoy exploring each other’s bodies and desires.